04 May 2013

Just Like You - Love Knows No Difference


The last few months have been an amazing period of time for Piero and me. It’s been challenging, new and insanely busy – which has come with it sacrifices – but it’s been a period of where we’ve lived in the possibility rather than in acceptance of the status quo.

Late last year, Piero decided to host a photography exhibition in support of the Australian Marriage Equality campaign (gay people in Australia can’t legally get married). On some levels it was a weird decision given Piero doesn’t have any photography, exhibition or events experience. But on the level that matters, it also made perfect sense. I believe Piero came to Australia, like so many people, expecting to find the lucky country. He did find that, and indeed Australia and its people are blessed, but he also found the underbelly of our society: a simmering fear that shows up in Australian society as hatred, anger and discrimination. Piero wants to get married and he loves Australia: Just Like You suddenly made perfect sense.

Piero created the idea in conjunction with a new friend Marie-Angela – a talented photographer who had made the inspirational decision to give up her corporate job, spend a year studying photography and then pursue a new career aligned with her passion! Truly inspirational!

And so Just Like You was founded and I found myself as the third member of the team. Throughout the project our little team grew to about 6 core people and 60 volunteers and models. What I learnt throughout the experience was that our networks are amazing sources of skills, experience and passion. We put out the call for gay and lesbian people to be photographed: 40 people turned up, most of whom we didn’t know previously. We put out the call for someone to show us how to take the photos and turn them into a hangable picture: two amazing individuals who we didn’t know appeared! We asked and most importantly we believed and the universe delivered.

What was so inspiring throughout the project was seeing the passion of people for marriage equality. So many people – gay, straight or whatever – felt so strongly about this blight of discrimination on their country – that Just Like You became a vehicle through which they could express their support. The process became more important than the deliverable.

The exhibition itself was an outstanding success. Hundreds of people came to see it, the Australian Marriage Equality campaign are using the photos as part of their lobby work, our local MP for Sydney launched the event and it’s spurned an international movement with similar exhibitions planned for other Australian cities and in Europe!

Just Like You was the vision of a banker with no photography, exhibition or events experience. It came about because of a chance encounter with an amateur photographer. Like so many things, it could have been one of those conversations that came to nothing. Instead, it contributed to an excellent cause and created the most exciting few months of my life in a long time.  

Below are some links you can use to see the photos or engage in the campaign: