04 July 2011

a date with daytime tv


i didn’t work for six months. it was great. i went to the gym, i read the newspaper at my favourite cafes and i explored my new city.


it was also incredibly challenging.

i’m not sure when, but my identity has got mixed up in my employment. i found meeting new people difficult, almost like i had to apologies for not working. i found casual questions by sales assistants ‘do you have a day off?’ almost confronting. and I began to avoid emails and facebook messages from good friends who asked ‘are you working yet?’.

it’s an odd process to go through (even when it’s your choice). and I’d like to think it made me more sensitive to people who aren't working.



2 comments:

  1. I'm with you darling - with my unemployment imminent, I have realised just how much I correlate me as a person with my employment status. I've been unemployed for 2 days in my working life (when I moved over here), and I'm not sure what on earth I'm going to do with my days...

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  2. Hang in there broski!
    You're a blogger now! That's what I would tell people.
    Love you mean it!

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